I have never been a creative person all my life but have always loved creativity in others. But lately, I have developed a creative taste and have started enjoying my hands at different things. 

I am thinking of recording my creative journey here and inspiring people to be creative as well.  

Th one good thing, about beginning to create, is that it is slowly building my self confidence. And the other good thing is the  joy and satisfaction of creating something… even if it happens to be a small thing.

Does creativity excite you as well??? Do let me know how you feel about it…


Appreciating small good acts…

It’s been a long time since I last posted anything here. Hope you all have been doing good.

The other day  when we went to a restaurant along with some of our guests, the waiter brought us our bottles of mineral water. He asked us if we wanted it to be served to which we replied that we would do it ourselves. Once the waiter was gone, my husband opened the bottle and started filling in all the glasses around the table.

This is one quality that I have always noticed in him. Whenever we go to a restaurant, as soon as the waiter leaves the bottle at our table, my husband will take the bottle and fill both our glasses. This act of serving water is done by him even when he is invited as guest elsewhere by  which I mean to say that he does it entirely out of his habit not because he is the host. This act of serving is not just limited to water but also to other dishes at times.

And every time I notice him doing this, I decide that I am going to write about it here because for me it is an act of goodness which I learnt from him. Again the fact that not being shy to do these things in front of guests is another good thing that I have observed in him. This makes him a real sensitive person – one who is not worried about what anybody else will think. It is his way of taking caring of the people with him.

I know you may be wondering why I am writing about such silly things here praising my husband. Well as I always say whenever I notice small acts of goodness around me, I make it a point to write about it here for all of us to get inspired to do such good acts and if we are in the habit of doing such good acts, then we appreciate ourselves for the same. Many a times we spend our entire lifetime appreciating others but forgetting to appreciate all the good things that we ourselves have done in the entire lifespan…

Lots of love to you all!!!


The world of blogs…

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Lucy’s Attic24

It was a couple of years back that I discovered the world of blogs. Before that, I had always heard about it but never took the time or the interest to read one. Then one day I discovered Lucy’s Attic24 and fell in love with the world of blogging.

Lucy’s blog talks about crochet ( a craft of making fabric using threads) and life in general in the city of Yorkshire Dales in England. I loved the simplicity, beauty and colours of her blog. For the first time I realised that a simple life can also be a beautiful one. 🙂 I used to wait for her writings and I started living the simple life with her. I started noticing simple things around me as well.

Another thing I love in her blog is crochet. I had learned the basics of crochet during my school days from my aunt. Then I lost touch with it. But with Lucy’s blog I rediscovered the art of crocheting. The way she created magic using crochet inspired me to take up the crochet hook again.

Through her blog I discovered colours…. so vibrant so colourful…😃 Every time I read her blog, I feel happy, positive and so full of life.

Thanks a lot Lucy for making me happy and positive!!!  I wanted to write about her blog here as it has helped me look at life in a very positive way. Maybe, just like me someday her blog will bring happiness and positivity in the life of another person…:)

You can check out her blog in the following link:

Have a beautiful day people!!!

P.S. The purpose of this post is not to promote any blog but to talk about people who in one way or another inspired me.

Never ignore the advice given by elders…


Rava laddu😊

Two days back, my husband casually asked me how to make rava laddu (Indian sweet).  I told him that  I didn’t know how to make it. Then the next day he told his mom that I have asked her to make rava laddu. I was laughing thinking about the way he was indirectly asking me to make the laddu. So the day after that I thought of making the laddu and giving him a surprise in the evening. I called up mom and asked her the recipe. She told me how to make it and one of the steps she said was to powder the sugar as that will mix easily with the rest of the mixture. She specifically said that don’t use the coarse sugar as it will take some time to melt and mix. So once I had the recipe, I started making the laddu. When I reached the sugar stage, I noticed that the grinder was in washing. I felt lazy to wash it and decided to mix the sugar as it is. As expected, the sugar didn’t melt easily. I kept on mixing it up. It took a lot of time to get the sugar melted and mix well with the mixture. All this while, I kept remembering mom’s words. Once it was finally done, I tasted a bit before making small balls out of it and found that the sugar was less. I was going to leave it as it is but then decided to add more powdered sugar. I cleaned up the grinder, powdered some sugar and added it to the mixture. In the end, however, the laddu turned out to be really tasty. My husband got a big surprise in the evening and he simply loved it.

You must be thinking why I am talking about how I made the rava laddu and that too so much in detail without even giving the recipe here :). Well it is not about the laddu that I want to talk about here. It’s about the lesson I learnt while making the laddu – “Never ignore the advice given by elders”. It’s about the experience of my mom. She knew exactly how to do it. She also knew very well the shortcut that I would take and so she warned me about the consequences before itself. And like every person who doesn’t pay attention to the advice of the elders, I also didn’t pay attention to what she said, as a result, experienced the consequences and in the end learnt that she was right.

It  happens in our lives so many times that for all the doubts and confusions we have, our elders (parents, grandparents…) will already have solutions. They will know exactly what we are talking about and they will come up with the right solutions. But it also happens that we  don’t take these solutions seriously thinking what do the elders know about the present times and what do they know about our problems.  In the end, however,  we do realize, how by listening to their advice, we could have avoided a bad experience in our own lives. They give us these advice as they don’t want us to face the difficulties which they themselves faced in similar situations.

This is a small learning experience for me about how not to ignore the advice given by our elders. But there are so many other experiences, in my life and I am sure in the life of everyone, that gives us the same moral in the end.



Comfortable living

Hello everyone!!!

Long summer days are here to stay for few months in this part of the world. I have experienced hot summers in India as well but here the main difference is that wherever you go, you find Air Conditioners. Its only when you are coming out of your house or walking on the road that you feel the heat. Otherwise you are in the comfort of ACs everywhere. Once a person gets used to having such a comfortable life, he or she finds it difficult to go back to old ways. In my pre-AC days  I used to always feel why some people are so dependent on AC and why don’t they enjoy the natural weather during the short duration of their visit to their home town.  It’s not like they are born in the midst of all these comforts, then why?

Now I do understand their position.  Once we start using things which make our life and lifestyle easy and comfortable, going back to old methods is tough as now we know how comfortable life can be. It is only when we have experienced good things in life that we know how better life can get. No, I am not saying that I cannot live without AC anymore, I have just taken AC as an example. There are so many other things like mineral water, latest gadgets and kitchen equipments etc. One such other thing is “Facebook” or “Whatsapp” which has made communication so convenient. Communication and networking has increased with their use but meeting each other in person has reduced.

If we look around us, we find so many things that have come into our life and made our life more comfortable. They have improved our standard of living as well.  We should be thankful for all the wonderful creations that have made our living, a better experience. I am really thankful to be able to enjoy all these creations.

But once in a while, we should take the time also to appreciate our much simpler days when these creations did not exist but still we lived a good life, connected more with people around us and appreciated the natural environment and neighbourhood available to us.

I am enjoying all the beautiful and convenient creations coming up these days but I also want to be able enjoy the simpler days when I go back home… The natural weather conditions – be it hot or cold or a rainy day, the neighbourhood where I grew up, the children whose noise refuse to end till the time they go to sleep, the many family conversations, the elaborate food preparations made… The list is endless.


Hello everyone!!!

Its been a very long time since I last posted.  Today when I logged into my blog, I was going through all the posts made by people I follow. So many good things to read. I am sure I am going to spend my whole day today reading it all up.

After I wrote my last post, I had some ideas about expanding my blog posts from just writing about acts of goodness to other areas I wish to write about. With this in mind, I tried to make changes in my existing blog but due to my lack of knowledge and impatience I ended up creating a new blog, transferring all the contents to this blog and cancelling the old blog. I am not sure whether this blog is properly visible to people or not because I made some mistake in selecting options while creating this blog as well.

All these confusions were another reason why I was staying away from blogging. Yesterday, while chatting with a friend of mine, she asked me how my blogging was going on. After the conversation was over, I realised I was really missing writing here. So today I decided to give it a try again. I will start posting on this blog again, but if it’s not working out I will create a new blog because there are so many things I want to write about.

So this blog will have a new and expanded format. I want to continue writing about the small acts of goodness done by people around me. I also want to write about other things that influence my life and my thought process…



In loving memory…

I began this blog a year back to write about the small acts of goodness, done by people around me, which have been an inspiration for me to do something good  as well. Every time I write a post of a good act, I feel positive and happy about it. If just by writing about the good acts done by people I feel so happy then actually doing such good things will definitely make me more happier.

Till today, I wrote about all the good acts done by people around me. Today I want to write about an uncle of mine who was an epitome of goodness. I lost him couple of months back to heart attack. When he is no more with us now, we realise the void he has created. This void is not just for the family, he has created a similar void in the life of every person he ever knew.

Every person who came to meet us during those days just had good things to talk about him. He had affected the life of everyone with either some acts of goodness or with his sweet behaviour or with his loving and caring nature.  He behaved in the same way with every person – be it his family, his friends, people working for him or even perfect strangers. He was consistently good with everyone. He was a strength for all the people who ever knew him. A very disciplined person, who had a strong faith in God, he always told us that for any problem in life, just pray to God and you will get the strength to solve it.

When I think about all the good actions done by my uncle, to which I have been a witness, I feel he is the best reference book for goodness for me. He has left behind a great legacy for us, his family and others.  I miss him a lot, but I know he will always be with us, in our hearts.

There is a famous quote, by Ralph Waldo Emerson, which I have always read and admired. It is exactly what happened when my uncle left us all.

“When you were born you were crying and everyone else was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone else is crying.”

Celebrations full of love and warmth

A couple of days back we had a birthday party to attend. The birthday boy had just turned 50 and so the family decided to give him a surprise party to celebrate the 50 years and to welcome the next 50 years of his life. They invited all the people, connected to him in one way or the other. Likewise, even we were invited.

We reached the venue around the said time and as we stood at the entrance, we noticed that few people had already arrived. As soon as we entered the party hall, the whole family – the birthday boy, his wife and both kids came over and gave us a warm hug. They welcomed us to the party. I had never met them before. But not for once I felt as if I was meeting them for the first time. They gave me a warm hug and welcomed me into the family. It was a very touching gesture for me.

After we both settled down with a glass of juice, my husband got busy talking to few people he knew. I, on the other hand, didn’t know anybody there and so I kept looking around the party hall. I noticed that every time a guest came through the entrance, the whole family went to the door to welcome them with a hug. I could feel the warmth and love they gave each and every guest. I also noticed that all the guests who came to the party were emotionally connected to the family in some way or the other. There were old photos being shown of the birthday boy with his friends, songs being sung, birthday wishes being sent from across the world by friends and family etc. One thing was sure that people loved being in their company. Throughout the party, they made sure to interact with each and every guest and made them feel special.

I very soon realised that the love and warmth they generated and the way they made every person feel special throughout the party is an act of goodness. This kind of affection relieves people from any kind of stress and tension they have. It gives them the courage to face the problems because they know they have people who care about them. We think that love and warmth are simple things but they are very powerful. They make people feel loved and cared and people love being loved and cared.

A party turning out to be a family affair, where everyone is connecting with each other with so much positivity is a very rare sight. So the moment I saw one such party, I decided to write about it here. I loved being a part of such a party.

Magical increase in Platelet Count

Another wonderful article from my friend. This article really moved me… how a guy sought help from Gargi for the healthy recovery of his friend and how Gargi as usual prayed with a pure heart for his recovery. Both of them prayed here for the recovery of a third person, a friend. And their prayers along with the prayers of family worked.
And for me this is an act of goodness. A wonderful act. It is done out of pure love and concern by them. Thank you for writing this experience here. I am sure this will motivate many people to pray for their loved ones’ as well as others’ well-being.

Live your dreams

On 18th January 2016, I received an email from one of my readers seeking help for his friend who was hospitalized and was critical.  Here is an extract from the email:

“Hi Gargi,

My friend has been hospitalized since last Saturday 9th Jan 2016 because of Low Blood Platelet count. He is physically completely normal with no signs or symptoms of any disease. But, his Platelets are not increasing and it has been almost 10 days now. Doctor in the hospital also seems to be clueless. We are going for a second opinion tomorrow, but we are really really worried.
I have been reading your blogs and you have used the Universe powers to heal your near and dear ones.  Would you be able to help me and my friend? Can you try the power of universe to heal my dear Friend. I am looking every possible way to get…

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